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		<title>The Zen of Communication, Part 2, Addendum</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my post "The Zen of Communication, Part 2", I wrote about a fellow who said "hello" as he passed me on his walk. About that encounter, I wrote "I’ve had this simple, spontaneous thing happen to me many times, but every time it happens, it reinforces to me the beauty of friendly connectivity and communication between people."]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my post &#8220;<a title="The Zen of Communication, Part 2" href="http://www.harryyoung.co.uk/2009/04/19/the-zen-of-communication-part-2/">The <strong>Zen of Communication</strong>, Part 2</a>&#8220;, I wrote about a fellow who said &#8220;hello&#8221; as he passed me on his walk. About that encounter, I wrote &#8220;I’ve had this simple, spontaneous thing happen to me many times, but every time it happens, it reinforces to me the beauty of friendly connectivity and <strong>communication</strong> between people.&#8221;</p>
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<p>I was trying to get across the idea that personal connections and communications in real life are a very important but perhaps dwindling phenomenon, and it tends to get left by the wayside if <strong>internet</strong> communication takes over.  Locked away in our houses, so many of us habitually &#8220;plug in&#8221; to the internet and close the doors to the outside world and our fellow man. Oft-times, internet communication can be a fairly inhuman, unemotional affair.</p>
<p>However, that is not always the case.</p>
<p>I hate the internet. But, I also love it. Why?</p>
<p>I hate it because it can be so impersonal; meanings get distorted, it&#8217;s a melée of irrational, irrelevant information (a bit like our everyday thought processes actually), and it&#8217;s addictive.</p>
<p>I love it because it&#8217;s a wealth of information available in seconds, it avails us details not covered in the mainstream, and it helps brings people together.</p>
<p>So, what has this got to do with the fellow that said &#8220;hello&#8221; to me?</p>
<p>I have friends that live many thousands of miles away from me. But when I get an e-mail from them I rejoice. An e-mail, or instant message can be just as powerful emotionally as a face-to-face encounter. They can uplift us, inspire us, or just simply make us feel connected.</p>
<p>Of course, I&#8217;m not alone in this as most of us who have internet connections are used to it now (believe it or not, there <em>are</em> those in the world who don&#8217;t!). But, I still get a tingle sometimes when I get an e-mail from a friend in California or New Zealand (I&#8217;m in <strong>Scotland</strong>.)</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m not dissing internet communication or advocating ditching it in favour of going out for a walk and saying &#8220;hi&#8221; to everyone you meet.</p>
<p>Anything goes!</p>
<p>The key is striking a <strong>balance</strong>.</p>
<p>&#8220;See it all, till tomorrow&#8221;</p>
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